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I’m using an alt account to write this review. I’ve been on the server for a while now, and used to really like it. But the longer I’m on it, the more these three issues stick out to me.

1. The server atmosphere is VERY negative. There are always people complaining about something in the general chats. I’m usually a very sympathetic person but it gets incredibly draining to constantly hear all the bad things in peoples’ lives, especially in chats that aren’t for that. It’s a lot of mental health things that people should be getting ACTUAL help for instead of using a public server in the ways these people do. The mentally unstableness in the server is insane. I’ve seen people in this server mention things like the fact that they genuinely can’t talk or socialize with people irl. That’s not normal and that type of chronic online behavior doesn't make for a good atmosphere for those of us who genuinely want good connections.
2. The server seems to pride itself on being non-judgemental and welcoming, but that ONLY applies if you believe the exact same thing as them. Otherwise, your beliefs will be called dumb or you’ll be looked down upon. (I’ve seen this happen more than once and have been very hurt by it in the past.)
3. There is very clear cliqueness within the server. If you’re not in the “in” group, your messages will be ignored. There’s constantly people referring to each other as “bestie” which always feels very purposefully unwelcoming to the others on the server. People also constantly give gifts to each other and advertise it in the company of a lot of non-recipients, which would be VERY rude in real life so I don’t see much difference when people do it on this server.

This review is going to sound very mean and I apologize, but this is coming from a place of being constantly drained, unheard, and ridiculed to the point where it’s caused my own mental health to take a turn for the worse. I wouldn’t join this server if I were you.