My stay in the server

I joined this server hoping for a safe place, it did not live up to that
I had vented about something that happened to me and made sure to censor what needed to be censored even made sure to look at the rules to then not break any. after venting i get a message from an owner after talking about it that bc i "refuse help" they took it down, i have my own choice to do what i think is right for myself in that situation. After that they then proceeded to make a rule about it which is #17 and you can tell its edited. they made me extremely uncomfortable. i have ss of the convo if anyone wants them