Don't join

I'm a trans woman from Vienna. This server is queerphobic. I'm on my alt account now but on my main account they indirectly said I'm apparently 'not trans enough', they said "many people come here who have a different idea of being trans". Who are you to define that? I'm trans because I am, not because you agree. I answered all their questions honestly and then they banned me for supposedly being rude, after they had just denied my gender. In the verification ticket, they asked me "How far are you in your transition?" and I was unaware of the meaning of "transition", because I'm transgender and just do my thing without following internet trends. Staff on this server expected me to know some internet vocabulary just because I'm trans. They also asked me what "outing" means. I've never had an "outing" as I just did my thing without announcing it to anyone, so that was a foreign concept aswell. They also questioned whether I even live in Austria―Wow, I've been living here for 13 years and you still treat me like a foreigner. This server isn't a safe space, it felt like cops talking to me. Great experience 0/10 I was already struggling to survive and these people hurt me even more. This TGA group has a website where they say all trans people are welcome, which is obviously false. Also, using the government flag―the symbol of the same queerphobic system that abused me―for a supposed safe space, is extremely weird.