dangerous mental health server where owner protect their friends over users
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dangerous mental health server where owner protect their friends over users
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tldr: so this server pretends to care about mental health but their helpers give trash advice to people who are actually in crisis. when i called it out, the owner kept changing her story, dismissed my concerns like they were nothing, and cared more about protecting her friend than helping people who are suffering
bigger sotry: so i have been in this server for a while and kept noticing this helper giving awful advice to people who were really struggling. like telling suicidal people to just "go make friends" and trying to use logic to "fix" eating disorders. seriously. i took screenshots of multiple examples and sent them to the owner
at first the owner was like "yeah ill talk to the helper and maybe remove her helper role." then she comes back saying they decided the helpers mental health wasnt affecting her work. when i questioned that, suddenly shes like "oh were restricting her crisis interventions after all." like make up your mind???
then the owner tells me my "credibility is damaged" bc i wouldnt share private messages from other users. she said i was "withholding information" even though i already gave her public proof. then she tried to act like it was just about her "personal trust" in me instead of her being the owner with actual authority. when i pointed out how her story kept changing, she called me "hostile" and "argumentative" and basically ended the conversation
obviously it doesnt take much brains to figure out that this server has a whole hierarchy with owners, admins, and helpers who make all the rules. but theyre not using that power to keep people safe. theyre using it to protect their friend group and dismiss anyone who speaks up. which is seriously fucked up for a mental health server where the wrong advice can actually damage people. if youre actually struggling, theyll make you doubt yourself before theyll ever admit their friends messed up. just please dont bother with this place
bigger sotry: so i have been in this server for a while and kept noticing this helper giving awful advice to people who were really struggling. like telling suicidal people to just "go make friends" and trying to use logic to "fix" eating disorders. seriously. i took screenshots of multiple examples and sent them to the owner
at first the owner was like "yeah ill talk to the helper and maybe remove her helper role." then she comes back saying they decided the helpers mental health wasnt affecting her work. when i questioned that, suddenly shes like "oh were restricting her crisis interventions after all." like make up your mind???
then the owner tells me my "credibility is damaged" bc i wouldnt share private messages from other users. she said i was "withholding information" even though i already gave her public proof. then she tried to act like it was just about her "personal trust" in me instead of her being the owner with actual authority. when i pointed out how her story kept changing, she called me "hostile" and "argumentative" and basically ended the conversation
obviously it doesnt take much brains to figure out that this server has a whole hierarchy with owners, admins, and helpers who make all the rules. but theyre not using that power to keep people safe. theyre using it to protect their friend group and dismiss anyone who speaks up. which is seriously fucked up for a mental health server where the wrong advice can actually damage people. if youre actually struggling, theyll make you doubt yourself before theyll ever admit their friends messed up. just please dont bother with this place
