Very opinionated and condescending

The owner of this discord server loves to start fights over the smallest of things. Like for example when I had decided to share a song on Apple Music they instantly started being really rude and shady towards me because I used a service he deemed unworthy. Another example was when someone had posted something in chat that was from TikTok, he instantly attacked the person personally which was quite immature especially since the owner is a grown adult well past his 40s. They keep striving for this inclusive place for queer people in mind but how can one achieve that if the one running it is so close minded. I’m personally just trying to find a small community that is positive and uplifting, going in that server brought me back to high school. Nothing but petty arguments and childish insults.