The place is good

For security we do not allow anyone without ID to access nsfw, the mods are pretty laid back, but still will enforce rules, accounts inactive over 3 weeks will be kicked, but that is for the ongoing security of our people, and spam is deleted as soon as its noticed by a mod,
we have also decided to periodically clean chats, this is so we aren't artificially inflating how it looks, we want active real connections, this is not just a server for an intro and forget it, its about developing a real connection with people.