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The Elysium Self Support Server

The Elysium server is a place for the emotionally unstable to heal by taking as many chances as they require to heal. We invite all those who have mental health problems as well as those who don't to come and heal together in a pro recovery environment. We also host awareness events for everyone, so that people can understand different disorders better as well as each other better.
We also offer
➡A unique levelling system
➡A pro recovery environment
➡A unique mentorship program
➡Peer to peer support
➡Almost 700 members
➡Loads of events
➡Loads of clubs
➡A separate server for plural littles
➡A separate server for fictional future action rpg
Marsy Bumped 6 hours ago

Ratings & Reviews

2.1
17 reviews
2 4
ash ash
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Helped me a lot.
Highly recommend. Stuff are supportive and helpful and they have come a long ways
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Alison-Journey Alison-Journey
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Bad mods & bad support; don't join.
For the love of God, whether new or old, listen to the old reviews, whether new or old. They are all speaking the truth. The Supporters and Moderators here do not get trained whatsoever. Inactive, and just plain horrible.

I kid you not, a Supporter here is literally named "imahoe." I asked a Moderator as to why this occurred, they said that they "didn't know," and "hoped that they would change it." Hoped?! You can literally do something about it!

Someone was also talking about their family issues, and one of the Supporters (or Mentors, I don't know if they do anything different as they do essentially do the same job) literally responded with a crying emoji and "*hugs*." The support here is not constructive. They don't help you at all. Most of the time the Supporters are inactive anyway.
4 2
fuckitupjayce fuckitupjayce
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It’s just not good
You either sit and wait for however many hours to get a response if you get one at all, or you get a pretty trash one. During a bad flashback, I was told by a MOD nonetheless to ‘focus on what was stressig you out,’? Like focusing on what was making me panic is good advice. It’s quite obvious the staff don’t know what they’re doing.
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Lukas Lukas
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Bland more than anything.
Whilst a lot of the other reviews hold a lot of truth, I think that in some ways they are somewhat biased, all based around earlier conflict. However, that’s not to say the server is good in any means.

Two ‘guardians’, or moderators on the server are my friends, and they constantly share with me behind the scenes info of things that go wrong.

Speaking from an outsiders perspective, without the input of said friends, there is a lot wrong. First of all, the support system, the main reason of people joining. It’s really really not good at all. There are one or two support staff members that are decent, but if you don’t get them you’re kind of screwed. I won’t name names, but there’s one guardian in particular that takes a lot of supports and honestly, things would be way better if he just didn’t. First of all, you have to wait anywhere between 5minutes and 3 hours to even get a response to you asking for help, which is really appalling considering that the server is completely based around helping people. They don’t even do a good job of that. A lot of the staff, namely that one guardian, respond for about 10 messages and then just stop responding. If you then open up another support, they reply again as if they didn’t begin ignoring you for an hour and a half.

Talking about the staff, it’s so evident that there’s no care in who becomes a support member. They can be great or they can be horrifically bad, the owner doesn’t care and it shows. The owner likes to claim that the support staff get trained which is a complete and utter lie. They get their application accepted and then they just get sent off without any further thought at all.

The moderators are really useless in a lot of ways. They don’t pick up on small things, like underage members. They were in a big scandal recently for letting an underage girl on the server for months despite kicking her off once and setting up a wall to ‘ensure it wouldn’t happen again,’ and then I found another who openly said he was 11, and nobody did anything about it. The staff members just don’t work well together at all.

The community is okay enough, but not welcoming. If you weren’t there at first, then you won’t matter. You can join and try and spark conversation, but odds are you’ll just get ignored or brushed over in favour of other more ‘relevant’ people.

Personally, the only reason I stay on the server is when I’m in a desperate situation in which I don’t want to ask my friends in fear of awkwardness. Would I recommend it as a constant use support server? Absolutely no chance.